A couple of days back, a friend of mine noticing me in Manchester United shorts in my Watsapp profile picture, asked me, "Why do you love Manchester United so much?"
Within a few seconds, my prompt reply was, "Why do you love your husband so much?"...I then added, "I really do not know...may be the history, may be the glory, may be Sir Alex...I really do not know." (Although United is going through a transition phase after Sir Alex chose to retire, but my love for the club has not moved an inch even.)She was like, hmm right...she had no reply and we laughed it out. I know you may call this a bit insane, I mean yes the comparison of her husband with a football club. But yes, love is love. You may again find it insane...You may say, I am trying to justify my thoughts...But No, am I doing so? No, not at all.I mean why would I even try to. When we love someone or something, do we really need reasons for that. I do not think so. Do we need reasons to love our parents or our spouse or our friends? I do not think so I really need any, and I am sure about it, most of you would agree on this. I still remember my first crushed love story. I really did not know when did I fall for the guy, honestly did not know...It happened within a span of a few days, or actually minutes post I met him for the first time...I do not know when exactly, but it happened and when it ripped me apart I do not know that even...Literally speaking, it was tough to come to terms to, you must be knowing, yes, yes, you know the first break up.Many of my friends asked me what did you see in him? What made you fall for him? He is not worthy of you.I said I do not know.
The chat with my friend that day suddenly left me thinking why? I do not know whether am right or wrong but I believe you cannot literally pin point the reasons for loving someone or something like crazy. True love doesn't need any reasons. It just will be there or will not be. Its either way. There cannot be any why in between. Am not I right? May be, I do not know...Do you?
Anyway keep falling in love...Its lovely to be in love...
Within a few seconds, my prompt reply was, "Why do you love your husband so much?"...I then added, "I really do not know...may be the history, may be the glory, may be Sir Alex...I really do not know." (Although United is going through a transition phase after Sir Alex chose to retire, but my love for the club has not moved an inch even.)She was like, hmm right...she had no reply and we laughed it out. I know you may call this a bit insane, I mean yes the comparison of her husband with a football club. But yes, love is love. You may again find it insane...You may say, I am trying to justify my thoughts...But No, am I doing so? No, not at all.I mean why would I even try to. When we love someone or something, do we really need reasons for that. I do not think so. Do we need reasons to love our parents or our spouse or our friends? I do not think so I really need any, and I am sure about it, most of you would agree on this. I still remember my first crushed love story. I really did not know when did I fall for the guy, honestly did not know...It happened within a span of a few days, or actually minutes post I met him for the first time...I do not know when exactly, but it happened and when it ripped me apart I do not know that even...Literally speaking, it was tough to come to terms to, you must be knowing, yes, yes, you know the first break up.Many of my friends asked me what did you see in him? What made you fall for him? He is not worthy of you.I said I do not know.
The chat with my friend that day suddenly left me thinking why? I do not know whether am right or wrong but I believe you cannot literally pin point the reasons for loving someone or something like crazy. True love doesn't need any reasons. It just will be there or will not be. Its either way. There cannot be any why in between. Am not I right? May be, I do not know...Do you?
Anyway keep falling in love...Its lovely to be in love...
Loved the way you put that conversation into thought. Your post made me remember of a friend and her crazy love stories.
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ReplyDeleteHey Debanjalee,
ReplyDeleteThis post reminds me of a famous quote- 'If it is not madness, it is not love'
You seem to be a person from heart. Keep it up, you can be a very good writer in the years to come..
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Hey Tuhin...thanks for your kind words and wishes...haha yes if its not madness, it is not love... thanks for your constructive views once again.. :)
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ReplyDeleteGlory glory Man united,
As the reds go marching on on on!
Just like the busby babes in days gone by,
We'll keep the red flags flying high,
Your gonna see us all from far and wide,
Your gonna hear the masses sing with pride.
United, Man united,
We're the boys in red and we're on our way to Wembley!
Wembley, Wembley,
We're the famous Man united and we're going to Wembley,
Wembley, Wembley,
We're the famous Man united and we're going to Wembley
In Seventy-Seven it was Docherty
Atkinson will make it Eighty-Three
And everyone will no just who we are,
They'll be singing que sera sera
United, Man united,
We're the boys in red and we're on our way to Wembley!
Wembley, Wembley,
We're the famous Man united and we're going to Wembley,
Wembley, Wembley,
We're the famous Man united and we're going to Wembley
oh my my...one of the most popular chants... n one of my favourites... Glory Glory Man United ...Thanks Sony
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